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Hello,
Welcome to your 'FREE' PRES® Entrepreneurs ezine. Throughout our lifetimes we constantly have to make decisions both personal and professional.
Some of our decisions are based on facts, some on emotions and some on what is often called our 'gut feeling'. Interestingly enough there is a
brain-gut connection so we do make decisions based on what our brain tells us to do and also what our 'gut' tells us to do.
We also use our 'intuition' which is often referred to as 'hunches' to make decisions. According to a variety of sources intuition is described as:
- The act by which the mind perceives the agreement or disagreement of two ideas
- Quick and ready insight
- The act or process of coming to direct knowledge without reasoning or inferring
- A way of knowing, of sensing the truth without explanations
- Intuitive messages often do not come with any logical reasoning to support them
- Hunches acquired by listening to your inner dialogue
As an entrepreneurial home stager, you will be faced with many decisions in your business and your personal life that will contribute to your
success.
So before you make any decisions ask yourself if it is the right decision for you at this time. Base your decision on facts and what your intuition
tells you.
1. What are the facts that support you in this decision?
This is where your logical mind comes into play. Do up a Contrast Sheet where you put your objective at the top of the page and create
a column for the PROs and the CONs of this decision. When you do this exercise you will quickly see which is the better decision. Then just do to
another check, use your intuition to see if this 'feels right' for you. If not, dig deeper because just one idea on the PRO side may outweigh all the
other reasons on the CON side.
2. Use your intuitive mind to assist with your decision.
All of us are born with 'intuitive muscles' but most of us do not use them until we realize what they are! A technique that can help
you develop those muscles is by being quiet, sit with your dilemma, and just allow ideas to pop up into your mind. They often seem ludicrous when
they first come to us, but over time, they may be exactly the answer that you are looking for.
3. Notice if you are making a 'FEAR-based' decision.
All 'fear-based' decisions are negative and based on lack of some kind. As a small business owner you will find that your business
goes up and down. And the down usually means that money is not flowing abundantly as you would like. You may decide to do a job just for the money
even though everything in your gut is saying you do not want to do it but...but...but... You might be working with a client or a partner who is just
not a fit for you but...but...but... Listen to these thoughts in your mind and make your decisions based on what feels good
to you.
Something to know along your journey...
Even if you think you are not making the right decision, know that in fact, this is the right decision for you
at this time. I often use this expression in my courses:
As long as you are facing the right direction, just keep on walking.
- An Ancient Buddhist saying
So use your intuition and decide if you are facing the right direction, and if not make a detour!
For more information on HOW TO USE YOUR INTUITION check out Cheryl Brewster's website at
www.TheIntuitiveLife.com.
Much Success In Your Growth,
Dana J. Smithers
PRES Staging & Redesign Instructor
Empowering Women Mentor
Founder & Creative Director
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Dana J. Smithers
Founder & Creative Director
PRES® Staging Resource Centre
Sun On My Back Redesigns
Testimonial
"Dana has always been passionate about supporting women in business and encouraging them to pursue their dreams. She taught me that in order to move
forward with my dreams, 'no' is not a word I can use to achieve my goals. Being available to discuss possibilities and gain insight from Dana has
helped me to solidify my thinking and move strongly forward in building my business.
Dana has always offered mentoring to her students and I know that we have all found the opportunity to meet with her and gain her perspective
valuable. Dana is a positive, energetic, and goal-oriented person and knows how to help others be the same way. I know that when I have asked for
her help with a situation, Dana goes out of her way to come up with possible solutions. I value her expertise, her wealth of knowledge in the field,
and her enthusiasm for what she does. I know that whatever Dana sets her mind to she will achieve and I have no doubt that Dana will be a huge
success in the global market."
- Judith Lowe
www.twiques.com
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